Trust your children
Let them take the lead in their life
They know what they want
They know what they don’t want
It’s their life
Let go of any expectation you have of them
Give them the freedom to BE a child, to be truly joyous.
Please don’t judge how they act, speak, feel, dress or wear their hair.
Tell them the truth
For single parents; when things are difficult tell them what’s going on. Don’t annihilate the other parent, sit them down and tell them the truth about what you’re moving through. They’ll know you’re hiding something if you don’t and that will only teach them to not trust their judgement and themselves or they will feel your anger and resentment and think you’re angry and resentful towards them and begin to play out the other parent towards you.
Be open to hearing everything they have to say.
Apologise when you’ve messed up, we all do it!
Treat your children with the respect they deserve
Never underestimate their capabilities and ability to teach us many lessons.
Then watch them grow into free thinking individuals with a well rounded experience of real life.
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